For Birthparents

How much control do I have in selecting the adoptive family?

You have full control in selecting the adoptive family of your choice.

What help can I receive during the adoption process?

In Alabama, it is legal to receive financial help for maternity related expenses during your pregnancy and one month afterwards while you are recuperating. You can obtain counseling, should this be desired. You can obtain a lawyer to represent you, which can be paid by the adoptive couple, if you feel this is in your best interest. Also, a professional who handles adoption cases, can connect you with resources in the community to assist you in enrolling in Moms Care Medicaid; enrolling in the WIC program; enrolling in job skills classes; and other programs from which you may benefit at this time in your life.

In my law practice, I routinely attempt to connect birthparents with other resources in the community where their best interests may be served.

What is the cost to a birthparent for receiving adoption help?

There is no cost to a birthmother or birthfather for obtaining help with an adoption.

What if I desire openness?

If you desire, you have the opportunity to not only receive information and contact with the adoptive family prior to the birth, but you can also receive information and contact after the birth and adoption of the child. The nature of this information and contact depends on each specific case and the various parties involved.